A Woman's Worth

As a growing woman, I've figured out that I decide my worth to a man by my actions. I've been that girl that constantly calls and texts the same guy for his attention, yet there was many unanswered calls and texts. I've also been that girl that receives a lot of calls and texts that I don't answer. The more I don't answer them the more that guy continues to text or call me until they realize I'm not into them, then they stop. That’s how we as woman work as well, but we don’t come to that realization that he just might not want you because if we do not receive the attention of the male we want, we think we will by bugging the shit out of them. WRONG. Wrong, that doesn't work...trust me I laugh at myself for saying this but I've tried that. The best way to let a man know you are worth more than a late night drunk text is by showing him your AMBITION as a woman. Men love a hard working girl that receives her own pay checks, a girl who places her education before anything, or a girl with plans and aspirations so when he asks you "what do you want to do with your life?" you have an answer that blows him away no BJ.

 If you're really looking to have a relationship with him, drop all the other guys. If he has the same intentions with you, he'll drop all of the other girls as well. If he doesn't, he's not serious, cut him off.

 There are many guys who aren't serious and those are the ones you have to watch out for. If he's going out constantly, if girls are always leaving him "<3" on his FB wall, if he's always talking to different girls, chances are you should probably quit him. "But he's so cute, and he has "swag" and all these other girls want him. There must be a reason?" That reason is they only see the material, just because he has a fresh pair of Retros, a snapback, and brand name shit don't mean shit! If you still decide to chase him after you have witness his games, you're going to get hurt because you're letting your self get hurt. You're letting him place you on his "I'll hit her up when I'm bored list." Instead delete his number, don't let the memories you once had stop you from moving on, you're worth much more and its time you start proving it.

"If you want his attention, stop showing him yours."